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I will do with you what you should do with him... Be direct


From what I have read in your post, you look like all you are looking for is someone to say it is ok to do what ever you want.
From what I read in your post, many red flags pop up as well.

One year rule is a sugestion that is shared for a reason.
Follow along and things should go well or do as you please and find out first hand why they give such sugestions.

Your life, your choice.