[tkdan]

Don W
I think you misunderstood me I said sleep side effects (but thanks for sharing) HA HA. We are not on the same page though. Raising the flagpole was not the problem. When I was on paxil I could not get the result I was shooting for. No matter how long we did it for, it just would not happen (I know I know I've heard it before "your wife must have loved that"). The truth is she did not sure at first she liked it but even she had limits. It was very frustrating for me no matter how hard I tried it would not happen. My doctor switched me to effexor and the problem did not completely go away. On occaion it would come back again. I would say that on effexor I could complete the deal about 85 percent of the time. That still left me with a 15 percent fail rate which was unacceptable. I'm not on anything now and I'm firing on all cylinders. I do think I would at times do better in day to day life if I were on something to keep me from stressing over every little things that happen. When I was on antidepressants I was much calmer and relaxed but I think the side effects made me more depressed.