Thanks for the posts.. I appreciate all that you have taken the time to say..
I have realized though, that SR is not the place for me now... I need not to be here..
I need to let things blow over, if nothing else, in my mind.. I will be back.. ( there's your warning, LOL)...
I will consider all that everyone has said.. Thanks again fgor all the info I have to look at.. I will do that,, while I am away..
Love you all..
Becky