Marriage is nothing if there is not trust. You are right. And stay the course and if she messes up you either leave or she leaves. Personally I would keep your daughter and make her live on her own, because her lifestyle is less stable than what you can provide.
Your wife has to take care of her own recovery. Bipolar is different for everyone. Just because she is bipolar that does not mean it is why she has affairs. They could be very distinct issues. And it is really academic and irrelevant to this discussion since you asked for advice for your situation and you sound like splitting up is looming in the future (based on wife's past performance). If there is not the trust about fidelity it is time to end things and try to rebuild your life.
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