[Grimnar]

Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.

Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.

I do pretty well with much of this post but the two parts I quoted I admit that I do struggle with at times. Not in all aspects of my life but definitely in some.

So the thing I need to figure out now is what are MY goals. I think the #1 thing is to have some children.