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Just got back from vacation. I saw your post and wanted to welcome you. I'm tired and will share more Monday. You are in the right place. The best plan is to take care of you. The "GUY" will deal with his role. You can't adjust yourself or change in order to protect someone else. Many times we don't really know who we are ourselves. Out PTSD has developed behavior and thought patterns that deceive us. There is a chance that in recovery, this guy might not be what the new Sarah wants. I'd suggest again, that you work on you and let the relationship take it's course. Honesty is best, trying to cover or bury things for the sake of a relationship, many times got us where we are now. I became two people. The one I presented to others and the one that knew what happened and my behavior. Trying to hide one from the other was a full time job. leaving no time for my recovery. Again, Welcome.
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