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Thanks , Jen
I know he's working on his fear now as we've spoken about it and he told me last night he feels he's coming out the other side of the anxiety, but has a horror of being unemployed.
Has your husband accepted his job, even tho it makes him miserable? Does he not bring all the bad moods and irritability home with him? This is what I've found hard to bear day in day out, diatribes about X or Y in work, with no resolution or plan to change anything.
I'm hoping this is a turning point for him and he can actually reach a place where he doesn't fear taking action.
It's hard for me to understand cos I've always been a doer ( not a saint, I can procrastinate with the best of them!) but I'd be writing up my cv and taking steps to change things. I've had to be very patient listening to the endless complaining - just venting with no payoff.
I haven't worked the steps myself yet, only a beginner, so I'd be interested to know how you do a 'mini' step?
Sophia
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