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So....
You suggest that he do a mini 4th step on his fear.
You also do your own mini 4th step on your fear.
Then perhaps, the two of you can sit down and talk about it. Perhaps come to some type of resolution. My husband has a bit of the same type of problem. He has a serious fear of failure. So, he's stuck at a job that he doesn't like...wishing to do something else (wouldn't take too much work to do it either) and being miserable. Losing the opportunity to wake up with excitement of going to work.
My philosophy is if you aren't excited about going to work; it's not worth doing and you should keep looking. There's always going to be some type of road block or obstacle, a time and place where you're going to have to be vulnerable; that's just the way the world is. If you don't take the chance, you live to regret it.
I had a sponsor that use to tell me: "The only regrets I've had in my life, were the chances that I was too afraid to take". Makes a whole lot of sense to me... Sounds like it may apply to your husband as well.
Jen
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