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Originally Posted by Wolf_22 Thanks for the tip P. I think I will do that from now on. I have a Q for ya though before I begin to drop this... How do you hold the gossip back? I mean, it's hard for me to keep my mouth shut about some of these things sometimes because it's kinda painful that the friendship has came to "this". I am totally a believer of "moving lips sinks ships"... However, I find it hard to follow that at times because it's so hard to NOT vent about it... |
Again....another opportunity to improve yourself through the process. Gossiping isn't something to aspire to, so instead, you should work on not contributing to the problem. There is a certain amount of acceptance you must have.....for those things you can control, and those things you cannot.
You can still feel free to vent (use this thread for instance), but doing so at work or to people connected to work will only make you seem like part of/cause of the problem. It is all about perception. Do not give others reasons to include you in teh problem. It is better to stay above all of that.
-p