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Becky

Your husband won't understand, unless he can stand in your shoes. That won't happen so lets try plan #2

You can gather info on line about bi-polar disorders and depression.
The info you would want to gather and print for him to read...
Such disorders can be controled with proper use of meds (Rxs) and that a person who is taking such meds should remain taking them...even when they don't feel the need. Remaining stable is what the meds give. Not taking them allows for the disorder to come back.