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I had a stroll through those threads you spoke of.
No one thinks your bad/evil/mad/etc etc. They just want you to know the mistakes they have made in the past. Some call it "tough love", "reality check" etc. I know NOTHING about codependency fortunatley, because I would not say I am hugely codda. But I can see the sense, as an outsider, of what they are saying to you - and its not judgemental, or persecutory: its common sense, good old common sense. Can see the REALITY of the problem.
As for the guy himself thats your choice, but remember to protect yourself in this dark room that is the internet.
Hope that helps.
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