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Hey Bozo...
Redsox fan eh... ;o)
Yeah...
anger... repression .. and relationships...
should just be called repressionships if ya ask me.. ;o)
but then.. I'm a codie.. so...
it's first nature to repress my true nature in the cause of another...
no matter how trivial the cause.. seemingly...
and sadly.... men are expected to repress their anger while women get to vent their spleen indefinately...
speaking generally there.. ;o)
there is a certain pattern around our coping ways... and ways of thinking that keep us feeling trapped... and reacting in certain ways...
we can detach from these once we know what's going on...
Sober Recovery has lots of answers... so.. it really helped me to spend time here.. reading.. discussing the problems I was having... getting all kinds of feedback... letting me see the problem from different perspectives...
we aren't meant to be angry all the time... so... yeah.. I think.. blood pressure.. digestive problems.. sleeplessness..
it hurts us to continually stuff it... but... one has to be willing to look into the matter... understand it..
your seeking.. and that's good.. ;o)
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