Boundaries.... well, pretty much the only conclusion I've come to, is I can't go down this road again. Meaning... I can not, and will not, live with him under the same roof again. Period. Even if that means he and his father move elsewhere, or I do.
I hope that it doesn't come to that, but unfortunately, that's where I am at.
Already, things have shifted, it seems he will be going to his sisters rather than his mothers. If that happens, I don't think it will even take a month before everything crashes. We have been fighting to get HER daughter out of state foster care and one of the reasons the court denies us is we have housed drug addicts, My stepson. So she's gonna take him in and expect to get her daughter back???
The insanity does not end. just circles and more circles. A mess for sure.