A tricky one! I am a woman and was unfaithful to my husband.When in treatment, I was told NOT to fess up as it would hurt! However my husband had no idea. If your wife is just guessing then it is best I think to say that nothing happened but that you were friends (perhaps?) Bend the truth. However if she does know in the back of her mind, then perhaps you should tell her as lying is the worst. When not sober, you did things that you deeply regret. I feel for you it is a difficult situation when the program is about HONESTY
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