Wolf-
My personal opinion is this. I do not associate with anyone that I feel uncomfortable with. Period. Yes, I do seek out individuals who make me feel good about myself, compliment my personality and I have to be able to laugh with. I am VERY picky.
My Mom used to tell me that when I felt uncomfortable around someone and I had feelings of worthlessness and depression, that I was sinning. It was a sin against God, and myself, to let this continue. "Don't surround yourself with people who will not promote and uplift you, Vivian" My Mom would say. "Being yourself and being accepted as yourself is a wonderful feeling. Not being accepted and letting it continue is a sin."
(Mom is Catholic
)
I, too, feel good around overweight people. I don't know why. I do have many average weight friends, too. My sister used to say that any overweight person is NOT happy. They just portend to be. Sure they would like to lose weight and be average weight just like any of us. Overweight means there's an issue somewhere. (Unless of course the person has a medical issue that causes weight gain.)
I agree, though. Overweight folks seem sensitive, caring and understanding. Seems they have a handle on what crap life is dealing them.
Wolf, I hope that things get better for you. Believe it or not, I understand how you feel as I am struggling with issues myself right now. I want you to know that the above are just opinions and not meant to offend or sway anyone...and you can take or leave what you wish, dear Wolf...
You can PM me if you want. I would be happy to listen. Whenever you want.
Take Care Dude. You will be ok.
Peace,
Wolfstarr