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Hey Cheryl--I already responded to this situation in a reply to your PM and explained how it is difficult for me to remain objective on this subject, but I feel I have to say again how it seems to me that continuing the relationship with this guy is going to bring you nothing but heartache. He KNOWS how you feel about him but wants you to meet his new girlfriend? What is that all about? Your instincts are telling you to stay away--that this is not a good idea. In my experience, when I don't do what my instincts tell me to do I get myself in trouble. I don't mean to be hurtful but what if this guy is just keeping you around because he likes the attention. To call you and laugh about the situation is just cruel. If he really knows how you feel and respects you as a person and a friend, he will let you go. That's my take on the situation (or at least part of it), take it how you wish. I would hate to see you hurt more by this guy.
Hugs--
__________________  "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face.....do the thing you think you cannot do." ~Eleanor Roosevelt |