Welcome Hopeful! I am a Mom of an addicted son who for the last six years has been in and out of recovery. Let me tell you that even when I stumble, I realize and understand that I am only hindering his steps in recovery if I continue to make all the decision for him! It's very hard at first, and then with learning more about codependency and MY issues, it becomes easier to let go. Keep reading here and us Momma's are right here with you!
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