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No offense Kit...
but... it's not your wife's job to fix or take care of your stuff....
and to top it off...
she's no doubt got her own issues that are workin in her so that... no.... she's not gonna take care of you first...
I've been dealing with my mental issues all my life without prescription medication... and I don't know if that's the right way to go about it or not...
I do know that I'm an addict though... so.. I just seem to feel in my rock bottom gut that using something else to "manage" my head and emotions is really just me sidestepping the issues...
I believe all the answers are out there... I just have to find them....
in the mean time... I have to deal with life with old coping behaviors and tendancies... and thought patterns that are ingrained and have to consciouly be worked at...
some days are good... some days are great... and some days.........
For me... it's walking the line every day...
but.. if I even spend one second thinking this is someone else's problem to help fix me...
puts me in pause immediately...
I do know that I can deal with most things... one day... 24 hours at a time...
A warm welcome to Sober Recovery...
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