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Old 10-11-2016, 03:20 PM
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Dee74
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When I quit pot the first time I tried to fill the void with alcohol...BAD BAD idea.

The second time (about 10 years later) I quit everything, and like AucklandAddict I tried to focus on healing the void not merely filling it.

For me service work - helping others, volunteering - helped give me a purpose.

It wasn't instant fulfillment - it took a little while- but it really helped me and my 'void'

I know thats not an option for everyone, but I do think finding something with a sense of purpose to it, something that adds to us rather than subtracts, is important.

Some find that in prayer, some in exercise, some in taking up a cause, some in exercise.

I'm wishing you well in finding your healing purpose WT
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