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Old 08-15-2005, 07:55 AM   #3 (permalink)
DesertEyes
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Hey there Chy,

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Originally Posted by Chy
... I'm not a hard core in your face type sponsor ...
Every sponsee is different, and every one of us has a different "style" of sponsoring. Your style of sponsoring is perfect for people who need that style, just like mine is perfect for a different group.

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Originally Posted by Chy
... She's only my 3rd sponsee ...
Wow! One in three is doing good, that's a fabulous record. Whatever you're doing, keep doing it.

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Originally Posted by Chy
... I've not had to deal with resistant sponsees and don't know what to tell her...
You're not supposed to tell her anything. It's a program of attraction, which means all you have to do is be an example of how the program works and then show her how you work your program. The only requirement is "willingness", your sponsee clearly doesn't have the willingness.

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Originally Posted by Chy
... I don't like being disrespectful to a lady 15 years my senior...
Perhaps you can pass her along to somebody else who doesn't have that inhibition. You are not a professional therapist, you are not expected to be able to deal with all comers. I have a sponsee who is 30 years older than me and I have no problem riding his derriere every single day. My style works for him, but would not work for others.

Whadya think?

Mike :-)
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