| Short and sweet....
Harley, go to your Al-anon sponsor and learn how to take care of yourself. If you think more needs to be done with your issue, you do the work for yourself. Make sure you're healthy so that if your SO continues this kind of behavior, you can make an intelligent decision about whether to go or stay. His program is none of your business. His infidelity is however, and if you tolerate it, that's your decision also.
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