[splendra]

For me sex has to be linked to love in someway. I have had enough loveless sex to know that it does nothing for me cause I did not enjoy it. I guess I just do not have in me whatever it takes to enjoy loveless sex. I do not feel like I am missing anything by not having loveless sex either.

I have to ask you to not use my screen name to try and shame me please. People who love me do not call me by my given name at all. I came up with my screen name to have a name that has no shame attached to it...

I feel like I have over come many hurdles and I won't let anyone even try to inflict shame on me. I do have a past that has much abuse and yes it took alot for me to over come it and to have a healthy life. I would say the Tao helped me to bring things into balance. The Tao is about balance and nature.

If you believe your sexual behavior is healthy and does no harm than it must be true.