Here is a link to the chatroom schedule! You may want to try one of Friends and Family meetings. I think there's Al-Anon and Nar-Anon. Anything like that should be helpful to you.
((((belkar)))),
If she's not responsible enough to take her meds, then maybe you should tell her she can't stay with you anymore. Sounds like she's totally out of control and my vote is still to see if you can get her hospitalized somehow. I'll keep you all in my prayers!
Love and hugs,
Eddie