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Thank you Searching, Dolphin and Ngaire for your feedback.
For some reason it is hard for me to set boundaries with people. Especially people I care about.
Last night my brother came over unannounced, and it was an inconvenient time. My husband was just getting started on a project with our daughter, and my brother wanted his help working on his car. They started talking cars, and our daughter was overlooked. I felt really irritated with my brother and my husband.
I took my brother outside and told him I would like him to call first before he came over. Also that it upset me to find him going through my things. It wasn't the first time.
He apologized and agreed to call first.
The bottom line for me, is that after a year of trying to help him get on his feet, I am really tired of helping him. I have enough of my own things to deal with.
Juls
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