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Zing,
His infidelity didn't have anything to do with no love at home, if anything he had more love than he wanted at the time due to the illness. As for my attractiveness, I am nearly 50 with 4 grandchildren and when I am out in public people think they are my children and freak out when I tell them I am their grandmother. I keep my self up, slim and trim, dress well and keep that grey washed away. I make a point to keep attractive and keep the "spice" in the marriage.
It was his illness and my co-dependency that caused the infidelity, or at least that is what I believe until I am shown something different.
I hope if your married your wife doesn't "let herself go" since it sounds like your love in marriage may conditional which is sad.
I really don't have to defend myself to you though do I.....Al anon just kicked in.........
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