[splendra]

Celebacy for the purpose of incresing self awarness is very different from not ever having been laid because of lack of self confidence. Celebacy is a choice I think made from high self estem and interigrity. The former only lack of precieved oppertunity....

equus- the woman that you spoke of sounds like she had some problems that she was trying to solve thru others. It's just an observation....I know a woman who used to be that way and also was a prostitute,addict,drunk who now suffers with hep-C. She now chooses to deal with her "stuff" thru being celebate and sober. She wants to live....she is one of my oldest friends we used to drink and drug together. Even back then I was concerned for the way she screwed around and I even stopped guys from "pulling trains" on her when she was too drunk. She does have a very kind heart and she hurts a lot and I wish I could take all of her pain away and heal her disease. She has lost so much.... both parents, her husband, a brother... and she still has faith which is totally amazing. (((((DW)))) you my girl.....she will tell anyone who will listen that celebacy is a good thing...