Hey there--I replied to your post about this on the other forum, but have had time to reconsider some things. First of all, did you know he was cheating before, but he denied it? Or was this amends the first you had heard of it? Not that it matters all that much because I agree with Bill--if someone cheated on me, that would be it. I would be done. I am truly sorry you are having to go through this. I do believe that telling you names of women would be going against the principle of step 9 because he would be harming them, even more than he already has by making them adulterers. Again, I feel for you..... Hope you are hanging in there.
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