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the one that always strikes me is the one that says "Non-alcoholics change behavior to meet goals, but alcoholics change goals to meet behavior."
that explains exactly what my relationship with my ex was like the last two years. he wanted it all.. and slowly.. he wanted nothing healthy except to protect his addiction.
the final straw was when he touched his hand to my face and said "you better hope i dont find a bar open because i sure do want to drink". blaming me.
i pursue my goals alone and now wish to all who seek recovery... i wish for you the rebirth of dreaming, the rebirth of your spirits, the rebirth of a joy in living.
god bless
quietsins
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