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Originally Posted by DangerousDan I ignore EdLova to the best of my ability.
I ignore EdLova to the best of my ability.
I ignore EdLova to the best of my ability.
I ignore EdLova to the best of my ability.
I ignore EdLova to the best of my ability.
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Flip the switch in your CP Ken.
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Try this:
Column 1-
I am resentful at: EdLova
Column 2-
The cause: ?
Column 3-
Effects my: Self Esteem?(How EdLova sees me?)
Pride? (How should everyone see me?)
Security? (What do I need from EdLova to be OK)
Ambitions? (What do I want from/for EdLova)
Pocketbook? (What price has it cost me?)
Sex relations? (What are my belief systems of how the other should be/ treat me/ eachother?)
Personal relations? (What should EdLova be?)
Colmun 4
Where have I been dishonest?
Where have I been afraid?
Where have I been selfish?
What harm did I create?
Do I owe an amends?
What is my realization? can I consider that perhaps the people who wrong me are perhaps spiritually sick? Can I ask God to show me the love patience and tolerance I would cheerfully granty a sick friend?
The 4th column will now turn everything in the f1st, 2nd and 3rd into a BIG BIG LIE