Old 11-30-2014, 09:50 AM
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AA sued. Family Blames For Murder Of Daughter

48 Hours Mystery had a story about a women who met her murderer at AA. He was found guilty but the parents are suing AA partly to post warning that there might be predators in the meeting(This board emphasizes the point or be aware of predators).

The Sober Truth - CBS News

I am no way supporting alcoholism or drug abuse but I will back AA on this. The couple's daughter voluntarily chose to go to AA which was a good thing. Her boyfriend had a criminal record. The family says AA needs to warn attendees there might be or are ex cons in the group/meeting. But shouldn't anyone always be aware of predators? They say AA was too anonymous in this case. But isn't "anonymous" is what entices many to go, at least they are doing something about their drinking.

And as someone who is dealing with a family alkie/druggie the warning signs of predator if not user/abuser were written all over this guy-older adult male mooching off a financially successful women (which the family was already worried about). Think about that. If an older adult needs and/or wants others to pay for their life DANGER. It's one thing to accept a little help but another to turn help, aide or comfort into a money train. Offering SOME help is good, offering them a life with you is another.

The story mentioned that since women are increasing in the alcoholic population/demographics there are more vulnerable women out there doing things like attending AA meetings. Apparently there are inside sayings/jokes about the women in the room. But shouldn't people be looking out for themselves. They say AA or recovery programs even recommend no dating during rehab.

Sad story. Hopefully the story itself alerts people.
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