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Time helps
becuase there's only so much one can process, reflect, or grasp from experience in a short period of time.
kind of like just going thur the motions.
plus there's the learning cruve thing.
plus our minds, bodies, and spirit is bankupt at first.
over loaded with fears, losts, perceptionds destorded. How can we
comprehend anything when we're all over the place blinded
in fogs of fears ?

but you can so also have time without experience, growth or change.

an act , done enough times become a habit.
habits over period of time becomes a charector.
A person with time that identified ,applied the program is more apt to
have a habit of staying in the moment, keeping it simple
stay focus, stay open,trun it over and accept that we're all
just alcoholic,we all need help and we can't do it alone, no
matter what. That includes with length of sobiety or lack of it.
The disease is powerful ,kills, and incurable.

It's not a rat race or competition. it's life and death,
misery and sobiety.
Not mine is better than yours. We did that already when we were drunks.