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Originally Posted by Music The secret is this for me. I don't get all caught up in someone else's program. My wife and I have been married going on 43 years and the main reason we're together today in spite of us both being recovering drunks is that when it comes to our AA programs, we keep our mouths shut. We ask each other questions on occasion, but we never argue about what either of us should do or say. My AA program is my personal business and I'll either succeed or fail on my own merits...thankyou very much. We all have both differences and similarities in how we practice our programs, and the only true test of someone's success, is not taking a drink today. |
wow..why would you not want to share the most important relationship in your life with the most important person in your life?
I know couples who also keep their programs seperate..Man..what a way to live!
It's no wonder they keep screwing eachother over..
I've actually heard of couples going through the work together, because they seek a deeper relationship with the God that is keeping them sober..