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I like the wheel. I am 35, ACOA and I have just now set a boundary with my dad who is a violent alocoholic addict. I saw that he was wanting to do things because it made him feel better, not for love... Then it clicked. That is my life in a nutshell. I am the fix in each failed relationship that I have. They want me there when it makes them feel good, but when I have a need, I am selfish and eventually the relationship dies. I never really looked at it that way until now. I am so thrilled with the "love" that I don't realize that it is just feeding a need... not real.
Thank you for your insight.
hoosier
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