Originally Posted by
Chelsea1029 
I'm thankful I'm the one who has an income (although this can make me feel guilty at times...how will he take care of himself!
I have theses same fears. In my STBXAH's case, he has an income... just a really low income. I just keep reminding myself that he's an adult, he can choose to look for a higher paying job, or take a second job (just as yours can look for a job.) Then, I turn him over to my HP/God. I know he's far more capable of taking care of him than I am! I will admit that it's not a one and done thing for me. I continually find myself releasing him to my HP but each time it happens quicker than the last. I think you're doing great, Chelsea