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Old 02-08-2014, 09:30 AM
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DG0409
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I've read a lot where people recommend not getting into relationships for the 1st year of sobriety. It's a time when we should be focusing on ourselves and not on other people. Plus, stuff can happen and we might not have our coping skills built up enough yet to be able to handle it without thinking of drinking.

Not that I'm any example there. But what I've learned by doing it not that way makes me think the recommended way may be a good way to go. Just something to think about for where you go from here.

Maybe it's a blessing if things don't work out not only because he's not the best guy, but maybe it's also good for you to have some time to focus on you.
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