How other people behave is out of my control . I try to accept that .
Often by ascribing others actions or perceived re-actions to my actions , in the cause and effect way our brains like to work is me jumping to conclusions .
Stay calm , stay confident , you're doing great and are doing well . I'm sure that things will turn out for the best either way with this guy . I used to run off on flights of fantasy when i met people and they used to disappoint , i use to disappoint myself by not being perfect as well .
These days i keep my focus to today and maybe as far as this week or tops the end of the month , although it was fun to build "castles in the sky" the hurt when they fell was crushing , these days i try not to build them ..
Thats how it was for me , bestwishes, m