Wow that's exactly what I needed to hear and thank you for your words!!! He wassaying for few wks he is a weed smoker and always will be since like ten yrs old! But now a lie later he realized his old habits r comin back and said he has to stop and next few days didn't backpaddle his decision. He's done far worse and been in trouble for it so to him this is only weed but he did say exactly what u did....he knew he was opening doors when smoking again and said to me its one day at a time but his ultimate goal to stop. He said problem isn't w the drugs but rather w him allowing something to numb his mind.