(4) As I recently became secretary of a BB group I do not want to create controversy, nor do I wish to agree with issues I do not personally feel happy about. Perhaps I should resign as secretary??
I just got the commitment to secretary our meeting on Tuesdays. For me doing service is not about agreeing or not agreeing, it is about me staying sober. We keep it by giving it away.
I don't know what the secretary s job entails in your home group but in mine, it entails reading the preamble, asking people to read how it works etc., circulating the roster, signing court papers and collecting the money from the basket, putting it in an envelope and giving it to our treasurer. Nothing controversial about the job, it is about facilitating the meeting.
As far as the Big Book is concerned, I do not attend meetings when chapter 8 "To Wives" is discussed LOL