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I furthermore feel like I need affection all the time. Yet, when I'm upset, I don't want my boyfriend to touch me. I cling to my boyfriend, yet I resent him when I do.
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I have been in this place, still am. I found the best action for myself was to end the realtionship. I was tired of hurting and tired of hurting him. That is just my situation, though.
I think that I did (still do!) the push/pull because I am afraid of being alone, afraid of depending on someone to make me feel better, and I am afraid of being abandoned. I have decided to go it alone and figuire it out.
I just wanted you to know that you are not alone in your situation!
You are lucky. My ex never offered to go to a meeting with me.