Originally Posted by
Ptcapote 
It also kind of freaks me out also watching the surrogate process that goes on as well. Like both of them check with their sponsors about everything...
I don't know how I would feel about that either. I can't imagine having a "supervisor" in a relationship although I adore my sponsor and she is not that way at all with me.
Honestly, that irritates the tar out of me. I would not be comfortable in a relationship with someone who did that, especially if we were in the same area and groups and everyone knew everyone.
This may be appropriate and work awesomely for others, but I wouldn't stay in a relationship like that.
I recently was being wooed by a man who was doing the Cyrano thing and kept running to a mutual friend, getting advice etc. Three ways just don't work for me.