Originally Posted by
Weaver 
Thanks everyone. I left the bar. Went to a serene Lake lookout by our house. I guess I am just afraid to do it alone. I've severed my trust ties with my wife so it will take action, not words
It takes time Weaver. But in life, it's all we have is time.
My husband has 4 weeks tomorrow. He stopped lying, hiding, being angry & defensive when talking about his drink BUT most of all, he started showing me instead of saying what he was going to do.
One day at a time. It may not have felt right by leaving the bar but just remember this... you'll never have to leave again if you never go in!
One day, one hour, one minute at a time. It adds up and your wife will see it and not only that, you will too!
