Haha yeah I have a friend who is a wine rep, she always has tons of really great wine. I told her a couple times what was going on with me and after I made the more serious transition to sobriety she did not seem to get it. She always says, "when you're drinking again we can..." I cat sit for her a lot, and she is always very grateful. She actually still tries to give me cases of wine. And when I say no she insists. I never accept them. But she is by far the most obnoxious about my decision to quit. Who needs enemies when you've got friends??