[Ashley18]

My ex-boyfriend and I split up on sunday after 4 years. He has an addiction to pot. He has been smoking it as long as I have known him. It was not a problem until recently. He got a new job at a construction site and his addiction became more serious after that. He met some new friends who smoke pot and drink a lot more than he does. And now he can't go through one day without getting "high" or drunk. I want to help him but, I don't think he will listen. I love him with all my heart, and I don't know what to do without him. Also I would like to point out he broke up with me because, he thought I wasn't happy. He is right, I wasn't I never use to see him but only like twice a week. Before that I saw him everyday. He goes to his friends house because, he can't smoke it at home or at my house. I'm so confused please help me understand what he is going through, and what I can do to help him.