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You may not like what I have to say, but say it I will.

One of the best parts of my relationship with my bf is that there is no jealousy. We tell each other the truth and know each other well enough to know trust.

I would not spend time with a man who had such jealousy. Jealousy is a prison. You are taking your bf hostage. He can't look at people? He can't talk to interesting people? I would not tolerate this.

Ocassionally when there is a twinge of jealousy. I say I feel jealous about this because.
In our case we are separated physically by several thousand miles and occasionally I say I am jealous because your women friends get to talk to you and know what is going on in your life and get to see you.
The other day he came across a photo a previous date had taken of me and he said he felt a bit jealous. I said I am sorry but that was before I knew you.

But neither of us would try to dictate to or imprison the other.

I had a bf who did that to me and all I could think of was getting away from it.

How can you love someone you do not trust?