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Old 12-12-2004, 07:41 PM   #4 (permalink)
eddie z.
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I'm not bragging, but I may have something to offer here. My female friends marvel at my lack of jealousy. I can't explain it well. I just don't get that way. One thing that may be helpful is to remember that jealousy can be a self-fulfilling prophecy. You seem to be aware of this, that being jealous can drive a man away rather than helping.

What else? Hmmm...I don't know. I really wish I could help more. The first key to any problem is awareness and you have that, so you're on the right track. Are you in any kind of counseling? That may help, too. Keep talking about it. Maybe someone else here will be along to share something more useful.

What splendra said was good. I have to keep my self-esteem healthy and know that I am a valuable person whether he can see it or not!

Love and hugs,
Eddie
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