YES YES YES YES SO proud of you for saying that!!! Honestly, no person EVER EVER EVER deserves that. My x and I got physical and in front of my daughter, that WAS IT> He took my computer and my phone and was being crazy, like an old grandma I just randomly grabbed his ear and twisted it, while he was sitting down. We were heated and then I threw my diet coke all over him. He got up and did a fast move to put me on the ground on top of this large pillow. That was it, it scared us both so much we were shocked, and my 2 year old was crying. THAT was it. He had to move out and since he has been out we have gotten along way better, and its much more healthy for my daughter to not hear us fighting all the time. I swear, relationships are SO TOUGH, especially when you are both addicts. I am recovering and he is still using (weed). I think its best to just stay single for a while, get my life in gear, save mad money, and take excellent care of my daughter.
Stay strong.