Dear Kindeyes,
Thanks so much for your sharing. It must be really hard for u as that's your son. And as u said, its so hard to be around when they are actively using. My exbf easily get jealous for nothing and being irritating. If I argued, he got so mad and kicked me out; if I kept quiet and told myself that ration and explanation wouldn't work on him, I couldn't help crying quietly. But then, he also got mad and said I was childish. Nothing I do could be right.
Dear bunkie65,
Yes, really hard to live with active addict and I was staying at the house with 2 (my ex and his crazy addict flatmate). It made me very emotional and angry sometimes. And his flatmate kept telling everybody that I'm crazy and psycho bitch. I don't smoke, drink or do drug. I'm totally opposite to their circle.
It destroy me slowly. I started to believe that I have issue and I started to be convinced that my ex is just user, not addict. Compared to his fren.