Just found this thread when I Googled "how to let go of resentment".
I realized today that I'm holding onto A LOT of resentment and I've been waiting for RAH to make amends so I can let go of the pain and feel better. It just hit me today that I can let go of the resentment myself - I don't need to wait for RAH to make amends and that he may never make amends.
Number 5 & 8 really spoke to me. I've done a lot of reading on forgiving but for some reason I've been having a tough time letting go of the pain from RAH.
Just wanted to share this thread and that the light bulb went on for me today!!