Friends with boundary issues
Has anyone found that they trigger when their friends show poor judgment in dating or close relationships?
I almost freak out when those I love have crazy people in their lives and won't set boundaries. Is this codependence talking (me wanting to manage my friends)?
or is this me recognizing that my friend isn't really safe for *me* when they keep crazy people (dramatic, users, insecure, needy) close to them?
It's as though my friend becomes the gateway to crazy and I have to step back. Does anyone else experience this?