Originally Posted by
Justfor1 
If the rule is, "no relationships for the first year" than does that mean that I should not get a job the first year either? A person should just focus on meetings and nothing else?
Hi Justfor1,
There is no rule in NA pertaining "no relationships” the 1st year in recovery. Its only a suggestion.
The newcomer, my life is unmanageable and I want to share it with YOU.
Keep recovery at the forefront of our life. Get a sponsor, work the steps, get a commitment. All other things will come on our Higher Powers time, not ours.
TB